It’s taken me a while to decide whether or not to write this, but I’ve decided to go ahead. This blog is mainly about quilting, though there are the “and more …” bits, too. This is definitely not about quilting. My husband and I were away recently when we had word — not entirely unexpected — that my 91-year-old mother had died. She’d developed dementia in the past several years and was living in a home in Tucson. Given her age and state of health, perhaps death could be considered a blessing. At any rate, this photo was taken when she was still working as a school secretary, so it’s not exactly recent, as you might guess.
Mom grew up in England and immigrated to the US in order to marry my father, her first husband, whom she’d met during World War II. They later divorced, and she eventually remarried; she outlived both of her husbands.
This next photo was taken much earlier than the other, as you can probably deduce from the clothing and the black/white photography. It was taken at Fort Sheridan, IL, where my twin sister and I were born. At this point, Mom hadn’t yet become a US citizen, but she did that as soon afterwards as she was allowed.
Rest in peace, Mom.
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Hi Sandy, I follow you a bit. Always fun to see your sewing, travel and fun times. I am so sorry today is such a sad day for you and your family. No matter what our age and theirs, loosing your mama is very tough. My heart goes out to you all. I am hoping the happy memories are able to fill the spaces that sadness hold now. Hugs to you, Taria (old RCTQ’er)
Thanks, Taria — how could I ever forget you from RCTQ? I do appreciate your post.
How difficult it must be to lose your mother by bits and pieces through dementia. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers are sent your way. (lynnstck[at]yahoo.com)
Thanks, Lynne.
I am truly sorry for your loss. While it sounds like you were prepared for it, I’m sure it still isn’t easy. I lost my mother in ’92, when she was 66, and I still miss her. My sister-in-law has been diagnosed with a rare form of frontal lobal dementia, several years ago. She just turned 60. Doesn’t seem like a fun way to go and I think I saw signs, long before she was diagnosed. I’m glad you can find good memories to hold on to. Big hug.
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Thanks, Darlene.
Sandy, sending heartfelt condolences, love and hugs to you and the family. I fully understand how you feel having recently lost both parents and my mother in law, my
Mam with brain cancer and the other two with dementia, all reaching their early 90’s.
Remember the good times, the laughs and their love.
Suzanne xx
Thanks, Suzanne.
Sorry to hear of your great loss. Our mothers are always in our hearts.
Thanks, Susan.
Sandy, I’m so sorry to learn of your mother’s death. The days ahead tend to define themselves as a time of reflection and remembrance. I wish you and Jill comfort and peace as you adjust to this significant loss in your lives. I hold you both in my heart and thoughts.
Love,
Pam
Thanks very much, Pam. It was so good to hear from you; it’s been a long time. I thought of you and the time you were learning to drive a stick shift when Mike was getting used to one again recently.